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Reading the words left by legends.

Words matter, your tongue matters. When I read this, I felt exactly that. I sometimes ponder what I will leave behind. What will be my mark? How will I provide a lasting impact on the lens through which people view the world?

I find myself surrounded by my children, family members I love, and extraordinary people throughout my life, seeking a deeper connection. I tend to be long-winded and loquacious at times. I tend to forget to pause listen and ask questions. Im strengthening this weakness of mine.

I reflect after my engagements with people and wonder about what I left them with.

Now, circling back to what I felt I learned here, there is something special about writing, and maybe what Richard was pointing to is this:

Great writing is permanent in the same way that a painter leaves behind art. Da Vinci, Picasso, Michelangelo...

I find his and your writing special. I hear you both, uninterrupted and clear. It’s nice to read about my uncle and how he transformed your lens and his grandchildren. I think that is extraordinary.

When people are in conversation, there is space for interruptions and feedback. Writing is special in the sense that it forces your audience to listen. Funny Richard talk about journaling like it’s self indulgent. Never thought of it like that. Let me revisit my own thoughts to rethink about my thinking.

I have more color here reading this, and it adds to my palette when I communicate. I appreciate that and am thankful for you taking the time to put these thoughtful words together.

Love you cousin.

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You are amazing, Justin. It's incredible that we've only had the chance to see each other a handful of times in our lives, yet our connection is so strong. I'm grateful for you and your family - love you all very much.

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Wow, what a beautiful, made permanent tribute.

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♥️

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Genuine curiosity is a rare gift, and you always know when you’re in the presence of someone who has that gift because you feel like you’re really being seen.

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So very true. And beautifully put. Thank you, Mary.

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Beautiful Geri!! And happy birthday dad! ❤️

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Thanks L!

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Reading what you put down makes me clamor for more!❤️

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Pat - you really know how to make a girl's day. xoxo

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❤️❤️❤️

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Beautiful, Geri. You have truly passed along the gifts your dad gave you to your amazing, perceptive, brilliant children. I'm sure they will continue to share their sense of wonder about the world with all who are blessed to know them.

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Thank you, Jen. xoxo

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True perfection - his words and yours! So happy you are sharing his great insights and how they are resonating with you. I remember this "stash" from way back when. I love how it has marinated and taken effect. Side note, he mentioned Bruce - now that's legit. ❤️

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Bruce! Yes, for sure legit. Also: marination has been key. I've never thought of it that way. Thanks Jack. xo

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Love love this

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Thank you Twila.

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You have definitely passed this on to your dad’s grandchildren.

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So kind, thanks PH. xo

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